The Promised Land

Recently my blogs have focused more on size acceptance than anything else, but I heard something a few weeks ago that prompted some thought about the focus many men put on the BBW attraction.

About two weeks ago, a mutual friend told me that someone that I used to be friends with is considering making the move to the US from overseas.

Well okay…….. people move, right?  What’s the big deal?

Let’s start by saying that I have some friends who are attracted to fat chicks who have moved to America, but have come here for jobs, or because they have family in the states.  For someone to simply move to America because of a sexual attraction isn’t normal.  I guess from what I gathered in previous conversations with him over the years, there just aren’t may fat girls where he lives, forcing him to “feed” his attraction via the internet.  That’s cool, I did that too at one time.  Now, to move long distance because you’re in a long distance relationship with someone and want to close the miles between you, that would be very justified.

This fella has already been to the states, attended some events like Vegas Bash, and was sold after hours of wonderful fat chick sex.

He had reached the promised land.

And by doing so, realized that his calling was to bang fat women (including the wife of someone that I also know), and the only way he could realize his calling was to make the move overseas.

I love sex, A LOT, but I’ve never let sex dictate where my life was going to take me.  I have other needs that outweigh sex, and when those needs are met, sex has a prominent place in my heart, and other parts of my body.  Again, I’m not moving ANYWHERE for sex.

But evidently this guy is, and while he may put his own spin on why he’s moving to others, his real reason is to sex up as many fat women as possible.  That’s a lofty goal, some may even see it as honorable, but it’s hard to have any honor when you don’t have a job waiting for you, unless of course the women you’re sexing appreciate the sex “oh so much” that they throw you a couple of bucks here and there.  You may even return to my buddy’s wife, I think she may have a few bucks to spare.

Welcome to America, my “friend”.  This is the land of the free, home of the brave, and one of the few places in the world where you can have your pick of fat chicks who would love your attention, and pay dearly for it.  That world is upside down, and I’m thrilled that I’m not an active participant in it anymore……….

For him though, it’s a living.


3 thoughts on “The Promised Land

  1. Phil,

    To move to the US for sex alone may be a little too much, but I don’t believe that moving to a country that has a higher percentage of women that match your preference, whether it’s bbws, blondes or anything else is that outrageous. I fully admit that bbws were an important factor in my decision to move here. Not because I (only) want to have sex with them, but simply because it’s who I want to end up with.


  2. Ilan, first, thank you for reading my blog. I happen to agree with you. I believe that men are motivated by physical attraction. I also know that the chances of finding someone you (generic “you” meaning FAs) are attracted to are greater here than other parts of the world. Increasing your chances of finding a good woman someone can “end up with” is smart business.

    I know you, and your mindset is completely different than the guy(s) I’m talking about here. Obviously part of the fun of dating and moving towards a healthy, loving relationship is sex, and some of the fun is testing the waters with the opposite sex to see if there is in fact sexual compatibility.

    When the emphasis is just put on sex and nothing else, that’s a completely different mindset, one that isn’t healthy. What if I was to relate the same story, and use drugs or alcohol as the motivation to come to the states. “I’m going to drink all the American liquor until my liver dies, because the US has the best to offer”. It’s essentially the same mindset, with the big difference being that others have the potential to be emotionally affected by a guy whose main purpose is to have sex, when the other person might interpret his game as being interested in them as a potential relationship mate.

    To add insult to injury, banging someone else’s wife isn’t exactly kosher either. Again, the want for sex outweighs any sense of what is right, in my opinion.

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